I call this: The Art Of Feeding Seagulls

   Feeling very blessed as of late. Nothing really exciting or unusual has happened, I was just able to sit back (on a completely deserted trip to the beach) and think about a few things. There is something so 'soul searching' about sitting on a beach thinking about things right? Basically I am feeling very blessed about my life because of the people I have in it. How I feel about my life and where I am at in it.... that is always an up and down kinda feeling. But at this moment I am extremely pleased with whom I call my friends and family. See, in these past few years my husband and I have really widdleded down our social circles to only include what I call the 'quality peeps' and have cut out the 'filler fiends'. After being drained and feeling just blah one two many times after hanging out  with various groups of people, we made the conscious decision that we now only had the time and energy to devote to those that we really care about and those that really care about us.... also having kids definitely puts a speed up on that plan. Funny how fillers just seem to float away once a baby comes around....
   It was such a relief to finally be rid of the notion that you need a million friends to be happy. You don't. The key isn't to be one of a million it's to be one OUT OF a million. To march to the beat of your own drum, sing your own show tune in the rain, don a tutu with biker boots and frolic.... do what ever floats your boat. And while you are doing all those things, it's just as important to surround yourself with the few people that truly, madly, deeply care about you.

 Just a thought or two that floated by as I sat on a deserted beach surrounded by those I love the most and those that love me the mostest...


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